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Monthly Archives: July 2017

Tricks Impress Girlfriend

Respect Her

Respecting each other is essential if you want to develop your relationship. Respect breeds love. As a matter of fact, you have to give respect to your girlfriend if you want to win her love. This way she will love you more. What you need to do is respect her life, her decisions and her feelings. In return, you will get the same.

Surprise Her

Most girls like surprises. You can surprise her in many ways. For instance, you can go to her house to see her without even informing her beforehand. Aside from this, you can send some flowers at her address. Another way to surprise her is to take her out for a dinner.

Listen To her

Most girls love to talk. Therefore, you should have good ears. Make sure you be all ears to her when she is saying something to you. It doesn’t what she is talking about, you just need to listen to her. If she describes some of her problems, make sure you give her tips to resolve those problems. Keep in mind that talking to each other will make the bond between you and her stronger.

Give Her Time

It’s important that you give time to your girlfriend. Most girls complain, “He doesn’t have time for me.” As a matter of time, time is what she needs from you. What you need to do is adjust your schedule in a way that you can give her some time on a regular basis. You don’t necessarily have to see her in person. You can call her for a few minutes each day. Your love and time is all what she needs to stay with you.

Some Reasons You Still Single

You run your dating life like a boardroom.

What they want in their personal lives often includes a man who is at least as successful as they are, taller than they are, and who will pursue them. But it’s sometimes difficult for these women to actually let the man take the lead like they say they want him to do. Just to make it clear, I’m not telling these women that they need to let a man pursue them; these women are telling me that they’re frustrated by men who don’t pursue them.

So what’s the problem? While they like the idea in theory of letting a man pursue them, they get very frustrated if he doesn’t pursue them on their timeline and in the manner of their preference. They have “talks” with men who they don’t feel are “doing enough” – much like they’d have a chat with an underperforming employee.

But you cannot dictate pursuit. You cannot complain to someone that he isn’t pursuing you. If you do, then he’s only pursuing because you told him to, in which case he is following your directions – which is almost the opposite of pursuit.

If you want to call the shots, fine with me – I’m not here to judge, I’m here to help clients get (almost) whatever they want! But if you want him to lead, you can’t tell him how to do it. This doesn’t mean you have to sit around waiting, though. If he isn’t pursuing you the way you want, date others who will! But don’t tell him to pursue you and then feel surprised when you’re both sensing the awkward tension that will inevitably arise.

Telling a man to pursue you is like telling him how to lead. By doing so, you are actually leading – and depriving yourself of what you’re really craving.

You over-invest in a man who hasn’t even asked you to be in a relationship.

The reason many women have trouble just distancing themselves from a man who isn’t pursuing them is because they’ve over-invested themselves in the relationship before the man has earned the investment. They’ve quit dating other people simply because their “favorite” is requesting a lot of dates.

What they don’t think about is that just going on five or six really fun dates where each time you go a little further physically is totally enticing to men, but it doesn’t mean anything in terms of the man’s interest or ability to make a commitment. It can get even more confusing if the man has been saying things like, “I see myself getting married and settling down sometime in the next few years.” The women sometimes misinterpret this as having a talk about his goals and interests pertaining to them specifically.

Like it or not, women have a biological tendency to become commitment-oriented sooner than men when they start having great sex (oxytocin – we’ve all heard about it!). So if you’re having great sex and the man mentions the future, perhaps even invites you to a friend’s wedding or to meet his parents when they visit him next month, your heart can quickly go in limbo.

My advice: If you meet someone special, consider taking things really s-l-o-w. Don’t quit dating other people till he asks you, and if he doesn’t ask you, take that as information about either a) his interest in you, b) his interest in commitment, or c) his ability to pursue and go after what he wants. A man must demonstrate ALL of the above if you’re looking for a committed relationship with someone who pursues you. This is what 99% of my female dating clients specifically tell me they want (a man who will pursue them), and if that’s you too, these tips may help you.

You haven’t let go of your ex.

Are you in a pattern of being “just friends” with someone you recently broke up with? If so, the texts, phone calls, and get-togethers could be holding you back from giving yourself wholeheartedly to single life and moving forward. If this is you, it’s time to leave the past behind. Instead of letting someone with whom a relationship hasn’t worked take up all your mental space, why not let go and direct your focus toward the possibility of a new relationship that will potentially be even better that the last?

You’re afraid.

Fear is a sneaky thing that could be sabotaging your love life without you even realizing. Dating requires vulnerability, and putting yourself out there without quite knowing what you’ll get in return can be scary. If you haven’t had the rosiest of endings in your past relationships, you could be looking at potential dates or new relationships from a fearful lens – whether the fear is being rejected or falling for the wrong person again.

Make Girl Addicted

Introduce a little intimacy

The best time to text her is to talk to her at night or when you know she’s in bed. Why? Because this is her most comfortable, sexy time – and when she’s likely to let down her guard with you. You can start out with just light flirting and chatting in the first few conversations, then progress to a little more suggestive conversation and get her to flirt back with you. If you see her responding in the positive… that’s a clear sign she’s into you.

Live a double life

Be a sexy naughty flirt at night, but when you see her in the day, don’t even mention the flirty stuff. Just talk casually and be cool – especially if there are friends around. You only should bring up flirtation when you two are alone – which convinces her that the two of you have a secret passionate love affair going on.

And no one needs to know but you two.

Don’t mention how much you like her

A lot of guys make this mistake, but the key is to not let on how much you like her. The second you tell her that, you’ll lose the suspense atmosphere you have created.

Ask her questions and get to know her

Being likable is important. The only way to do this is to bond with her over common interests. Talk to her and get to know her, asking questions about what she’s into. And what’s more, you should really take an interest. Be sure to remember what you hear from her. If she’s into sports, clothes, makeup, whatever – just find a way to connect with her on it. If it’s a topic you don’t know about yourself, don’t fret; just ask her more questions.

You can send her texts when you get her number asking her about her latest purchase or makeup choice, or maybe how she’s gotten her hair done. Try to keep the conversation on her, but if you find something you’re both into, more the better.

Dating Mistakes Of First Timers

Forgetting to properly introduce yourself

The next mistake that first timers make is forgetting to properly introduce themselves. Surely, talking to a stranger can sometimes be awkward. But, it is important for individuals to know that the best way to start a conversation is to introduce yourself properly. By doing so, individuals can gain better insights about you which can help you create a good relationship during your first date.

Neglecting to choose the right topics

There are also some individuals who neglect to choose the right topics and speed dating. Most speed dates only last for several minutes. Therefore, you need to make sure that you can give a good impression. To do so, you need to choose the right topics. This is important to help you know more about the person you are dating. In addition, choosing the right topic can also help you make sure that they will be interested in dating you again in the future.

Creating plans for the future

Finally, in case that you are interested with your date, you need to make sure to avoid creating future plans. This is also another essential factor since you do not know if the person you are dating wants to meet you again. So, before planning for the next date, take time to ask the person properly and politely to help you achieve your goals.